Aden Cosgrove, RSW, C.C.C. (they/them) is a neurodivergent, queer, and trans trauma survivor who is passionate about polyvagal theory and the healing that has happened as a result of integrating this theory into their professional and personal life. They have been integrating this theory into their professional practice and the clinic that they operate and own for four years and has been especially helpful in working with fellow neuroqueers.

Many neuroqueer people experience shame and guilt related to their trauma, symptoms of neurodivergence, and behavior when outside their window of tolerance. Utilizing polyvagal theory has transformed how I experience life as a neuroqueer individual. It has also helped the neuroqueer individuals and relationships I work with see their experiences through a unique lens, highlighting the dynamic interplay between the autonomic nervous system and identity.

This presentation will reframe these experiences in a strengths-based, compassionate way. It will allow us to recognize the value of trauma states and neurodivergent symptoms. We will explore how meltdowns and stimming can be seen as vital self- regulation strategies. Additionally, we will examine how moments of hypoarousal, such as social burnout and sensory overload, can be understood and managed through polyvagal-informed coping techniques. These are essential tools for clinicians, educators, and self-advocates navigating the neuroqueer space.